As much as I don't wanna talk about this, there are guys who are very stubborn & selfish when it comes to being a dad. They want the fun but not what comes from it all. I have to be both parents since no one wants to be the one responsible for my kids. I should have 2 checks coming in & have none. When I do,(years later)its only for less than 50 dollars a month per check. I don't despise my kids' dad, I despise their behavior. Its almost Xmas & one of my kids' dad's decided he wasn't getting the layaway we put in on together for the kids for Xmas because he couldn't control me or my household how he wanted. My kids cried as he left & I told him to never come back. I believe men who owe child support are only with women who can pay their child support for them & use those they owe child support to so they don't have to pay or do anything but show up. The ones who are not working are exempt from this, those that are working & can afford to pay should be ashamed of themselves.I'm like this if you don't wanna or can't pay child support why keep having more kids by other women?
What can I say...I'm here for the same as everyone else. When you have so many titles & nothing to show for it, things get complicated. Life itself is a challenge for all of us, we just need a village to help us get back on track of being counted as somebody with a seat at the table of prosperity.
